I’m a Girl, a Woman, a Female
I run to my car, afraid I’m going too slow
When men speak to me, I stand there, shaky and pale
There are so many things I won’t say or show
And it’s all because I’m a girl, a woman a female
I am groped but cannot say a thing
When you’re a woman you’re over dramatic and frail
Does it not matter I’m a human being?
And it’s all because I’m a girl, a woman, a female
I can cry but can’t express my anger or rage
Because it would be considered rude, and I’d have tipped the scale
But yes, I can have tears streaming down my face, that’s not considered strange
And it’s all because I’m a girl, a woman, a female
I have to look over my shoulders when I walk
I’ve learned to be observant and watch for those key details
I can’t laugh too loudly; I have to be careful when I talk
And it’s all because I’m a girl, a woman, a female
My manners, my manners are lacking as a woman
For some reason it matters how I am viewed by men, yet it’s overrated and stale
But “Cross your legs!” I hear again and again
And it’s all because I’m a girl, a woman, a female
I can’t smile too big or too little
Either I’m asking for attention, or I am hateful
I can’t eat what I want or how I want because I’m fat or brittle
And it’s all because I am a girl, a woman, a female
I can’t cut my hair as short as I would like nor how I want
Dark colors aren’t accepted on my nails
I would be judged and bullied, something to mess with and taunt
And it’s all because I am a girl, a woman, a female
“Your skin is showing!” They yell at me; cover up your skin
But I’m overheating, I’m human from my hair down to toenail
But somehow my shoulders are so distracting it’s a sin!
And it’s all because I’m a girl, a woman, a female
I’m exhausted but I cannot ever be tired
Dark circles can’t show, I have to be a princess like in a fairytale
How is it my father was someone I had admired?
And it’s all because I’m a girl, a woman, a female
Who are you going with? They ask me because I can’t be alone
There’re too many dangers, I can’t wear my hair in a ponytail?
No, they’ll grab me by my hair, and I’ll never make it home
And it’s all because I am a girl, a woman, a female
I need to look happy every day because God forbid, I show any other emotions
But oh wait, aren’t I supposed to be emotional? What if I’m off the rails?
I have to suppress what I feel and want to say, God and men are supposed to be my only devotions
And it’s all because I’m a girl, a woman, a female
I have to cover my drink wherever I go
Because someone is bound to find mine open, they’re just waiting for a sample sale
Then I’ll be raped and killed, and people will say I should have known
And it’s all because I’m a girl, a woman, a female
I’ve been conditioned to never have my own opinions because mine are wrong
As a woman, from birth we are set up to fail`
I hate that my daily life is smiling and nodding along
And it’s all because I’m a girl, a woman, a female
I’m drowning in a river filled with everyone else’s views
They put their words in my mouth, I’m suffocating under this heavy veil
It’s the same thing over and over again, how is it I always lose?
And its all because I’m a girl, a woman, a female
My mother used to say I was perfect how I am
But the world has taught me otherwise because I’m not a male
My father told me never to trust a man
And it’s all because I’m a girl, a woman, and a female
But that is the way I am.
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Edessa Calles is a senior in high school who works at Target and enjoys photography as well as playing sports. She is new with writing and newspaper but...